aging parents

By loving you more, you love the person you are caring for more.

Peggi Speers

Caregiving often calls us to lean into love we didn't know possible.

Tia Walker

Even though people experiencing dementia become unable to recount what has just happened, they still go through the experience—even without recall. The psychological present lasts about three seconds. We experience the present even when we have dementia. The emotional pain caused by callous treatment or unkind talk occurs during that period. The moods and actions of people with dementia are expressions of what they have experienced, whether they can still use language and recall, or not.

Judy Cornish

I love you, but I got to love me more.

Peggi Speers

In the heart or every caregiver is a knowing that we are all connected. As I do for you, I do for me.

Tia Walker

Never give up hope. If you do, you'll be dead already.--Dementia Patient, Rose from The Inspired Caregiver

Peggi Speers

Offering care means being a companion, not a superior. It doesn’t matter whether the person we are caring for is experiencing cancer, the flu, dementia, or grief. If you are a doctor or surgeon, your expertise and knowledge comes from a superior position. But when our role is to be providers of care, we should be there as equals.

Judy Cornish

People don't like getting older, but they do like changing

Tommy Wallach

The phrase 'Love one another' is so wise. By loving one another, we invest in each other and in ourselves. Perhaps someday, when we need someone to care for us, it may not come from the person we expect, but from the person we least expect. It may be our sons or daughters-in-law, our neighbors, friends, cousins, stepchildren, or stepparents whose love for us has assigned them to the honorable, yet dangerous position of caregiver.

Peggi Speers

The power of intuitive understanding will protect you from harm until the end of your days.

Lao Tzu

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