Upholders may struggle in situations where expectations aren't clear, or the rules aren't established. They may feel compelled to meet expectations, even ones that seem pointless. They may feel uneasy when they know they're breaking the rules, even unnecessary rules, unless they work out a powerful justification to do so.

Gretchen Rubin

Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives

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